
I think it’s safe to say that Evening Music listeners are music lovers. At some point in your past you had a musical experience that changed you, that opened you to the power of music.
For me it probably happened at some of the concerts I saw when I was young: the British band Soft Machine opening for the Jimi Hendrix Experience in 1968, or Rahsaan Roland Kirk performing with the Mothers of Invention the next year. Or seeing a performance of Carl Orff’s “Carmina Burana” in which my father sang.
But before those musical encounters outside my home, there was the music inside my home. Music was very important to my parents, especially my father, Kenneth Garland. He was an advertising executive, but I understood—because everyone who knew him understood—that he loved music. He sang classical music and popular songs, accompanying himself on the piano. My mother, Barbara Garland, enjoyed acting, and many times my parents were the leads in local theater productions in Lexington, Massachusetts. And they sang the lead roles in a series of locally-created (and quite good) musicals. That’s Mom kneeling on stage in the photo, circa 1960. My father took the other photos before I was born.
On this Mother’s Day weekend I think back to what seemed at the time to be an average childhood: coaching my mother on her lines, watching my parents rehearse, hearing them sing, seeing the joy of their creative work with friends, and knowing that they loved what they were doing. I’m aware now that my childhood (which I shared with my brother Chris) wasn’t average, and I’m so grateful for that unusual environment, where creativity was an everyday joy.
Mothers are the font of all music. With tuneful words of affection and with lullabies, they are the origin of music for each of us. They help establish the musical world we grow into, and our receptivity to it.
What tuned you in to the power of music? Mother’s lullabies? A concert? A particular song? Something you heard on the radio? Please leave a comment.
And thanks to all of you who responded to this Blog over the last two weeks. In your answers to my question, “what are doing as you listen to Evening Music?” a fascinating group portrait was created, one which I imagine can be as interesting to you as it is to me (see below).













