While we we were making our video of Jamel Shabazz, he stopped to talk with a group of street fighters in Union Square. They were tough looking guys, with hoods over their heads, tear drop tattoos, and their fists were raised.

“Can I take a picture of you fighters of men?” Jamel asked.
The street fighters looked back him, confused. Jamel continued, “What I like to do with martial artists is get them with a strong stance. I know you guys can do that because you’re legendary.”
This is an approach Jamel has mastered over the years. When he first started asking for permission, he found that his subjects were always asking him back, “Why do you want to take a picture of me?”
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Needless to say, Jamel’s picture came out great. As he walked away, he was sure to thank his new friends. He lamented, “I would love to fight with y’all, train with you… too bad I’m not dressed right.”
The surprising thing about Jamel, and the secret you’d never hear behind all the smiles in his books, is that when Jamel approaches someone he’d like to photograph, he still worries he’ll be told no. After each picture he took with us, Jamel would smile with relief and say, “I was really expecting a no.”
Asking permission always changes the picture you take, but possibly for the best. Check out the discussion over on our the Street Shots Challenge page.
This picture comes from Flickr user whirrdz. While she was walking in the Bronx one day, she spotted her friend’s neighbor tending his sunflower garden. She writes, “When he went to move out of the way, I said ‘Oh, no — with you, please. That would be even better.’”
So, let’s continue the conversation. Whose bedside manner do you prefer—Bruce Gilden, who doesn’t want you to notice him until you’re blinking the flash out of your eyes, or Jamel Shabazz, who wants to tell you how nice you look today?