It’s rather fitting that my last post in this series should be about family, since I’ve leaned so heavily on my mother and mined her memories for most of the previous ones.
I’m supposed to be thinking especially about her this time of year. Not only is this the time to get together with one’s family, but it’s also particularly important to honor one’s elders and ancestors. New Year’s Eve is reserved for wei lu with the immediate family, and the following day is devoted to visiting grandparents and other relatives, neighbors, and friends to wish them happiness in the new year. (If you’re Korean, there’s a lot of bowing to the elders too, from what I understand.)
So New Year’s Day has gone and passed, I know, but I’d like to wish you and yours and all the moms out there xi nian kuai le! May your Year of the Rat be a prosperous one and filled with good fortune. And may you eat many delicious things.


There are, apparently, many different kinds of nian gao; sometimes the rice cakes are used in a savory stirfry, sometimes it might come with red bean (like the version pictured here) or sesame paste, like
While the versions Chinese people eat for New Year tend to be
While on my 

Mom says one of the things one must eat for Lunar New Year is tang yuan, or glutinous rice balls. There are savory versions (some pork-filled, even), but I’ve only ever had the sweet kind, which can come stuffed (with red bean or sesame paste, among other things) or unstuffed.
The best part about this time of year, kids will tell you, is getting the hong bao, or red envelope.